Charisma 101

Charisma (n) – a compelling attractiveness or charm that can inspire devotion in others

Charisma is the magic ingredient everyone wants. While it can’t be seen, smelled, or tasted, it’s very obvious when you encounter it. As your charisma increases you’ll find your presence and influence grows. It will be easier to get and hold the attention of others.

Your intelligence and skill set will only get you so far in life. To take your game to the next level, begin increasing your charisma. The benefits will be noticeable and spiral your career upward.

Here are a few simple steps to begin developing your charisma:

• Everyone wants to feel better – remember this simple basic rule. They want to feel important, that they count, and they’re being listened to. When you find ways to do this your charisma will grow in leaps and bounds.
• Listen – take time to listen to others for their ideas and contributions. Don’t immediately dismiss their idea or mentally formulate your rebuttal. Relax – take it all in with an open mind. Take the time to understand their point-of-view. Ask how this can help you?
• Be authentic – charisma is all about being you. Being comfortable in your own skin and telling your truth. Don’t have hidden agendas and always work for the good of the team.
• Open your heart – you know your story very well. Take the time to listen to other’s story and find a way to help them move forward on their journey. They will remember this and you will become legendary.